Becoming ⋅ A Life Advisory
A life of your own choosing.
More of the life you want, easier than you thought possible.
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The question
You have someone for your money, your health and your legal affairs. Who do you have for your life?
The problem
Your options are limited at best.
The people who could bring your best out of you exist. Finding them, vetting them and getting them to work together is a full-time job.
- Generic
- Made to be one-size-fits-all, not designed around you.
- Siloed
- A patchwork of practitioners that only see their piece, and nobody seeing the whole.
- Dogmatic
- Every practitioner convinced their method is the one right solution.
- Inefficient
- Hours spent finding and trying different practitioners to find what will work for you.
- Unreliable
- Little understanding of whether it will work for you, in your current circumstances. You find out by paying.
The answer
Becoming assembles your team of experts and answers only to you.
- When precision matters
- When you demand results
- When your time is an asset you protect
Three stages, one method
We find what matters, set it in motion, and stay with you as it becomes the way you live.
Stage one
Assess
A team of experts studies how you live and work, and shows you what you cannot see on your own.
Stage two
Immerse
Five days away with a curated group of peers, led by experts, to reset and make room for a better way to live and work.
Stage three
Integrate
Your advisor and your team stay with you, and we measure every ninety days.
Stage one
Assess
The Diagnostic
A team of experts studies how you live and work, and shows you what you cannot see on your own.
Hundreds of data points across three domains, Capacity, Orientation and Activation. Specialists in each domain review your data, then work with you, and across one another’s findings, to surface what matters. All of it is compiled into one thorough, actionable report.
Facilitated byNamed experts in each field
Read about the DiagnosticStage two
Immerse
The Experience
Five days away with a curated group of peers, led by experts, to reset and make room for a better way to live and work.
Five days, Monday to Friday, away from the people who need something from you. A small cohort of members at the same threshold, and a program designed around the insights surfaced by the Diagnostic, practiced in the body rather than understood on paper.
Held atAwe-inspiring locations
Read about the ExperienceStage three
Integrate
The Advisory
Your advisor and your team stay with you, and we measure every ninety days.
A membership that keeps your advisor, your findings and your cohort close at hand while new habits become the way you live. One finding a month, tested against your actual week.
Measured everyNinety days
Read about the Advisory90 Days from the first conversation to a life that is recognizably yours.
Precision clarity
Lasting space
Ongoing counsel
Before you decide
See it for yourself first.
We hold small, curated salons and live events for people considering Becoming. Attendance is by application, and every seat is curated. Come as a guest, meet members, and ask whatever you like.
Apply to attendCurated room by application only
Who it is for
Becoming is for people who want to design a life of their choosing.
We’re for people who get it. They have the nagging sense that they’re made for more than this, and that more does not have to mean giving it all up for a cause. They want a life of their own choosing. One that goes broader and deeper into themselves, into their relationships, and into their capacity to create.
Our members
Accomplished, driven, and free to choose.
Three things are true of every member before they arrive.
- Accomplished
- Our members have achieved some level of success, by whatever measure. In psychological terms, they’ve fulfilled their esteem needs and are no longer driven solely by achievement or recognition.
- Driven
- They feel a drive within themselves toward self-actualization, a desire to live out their highest potential. They see this as the highest priority in their life, and want it done at the highest standard available.
- Free to choose
- They have the time, energy, and freedom to create the life they want and they don’t want to do that on someone else’s terms. They want to design a life fully their own. They would rather spend as little time getting there as necessary, and as much time living it as possible.
Why people turn to Becoming
Which one brought you here?
Most people recognize themselves in more than one.
What you might be saying
What Becoming gives you
A Diagnostic that shows you what your success hides.
Reason • Edge
$200B
Moved across their market every day
Stuck, plateaued
Entry state
Setting the tone with clarity and conviction
New state
CXO of the second-largest stock exchange
Member
was feeling
fierce competition with no more intuitive advantage to be had.
What brought them here?
Ninety days later they were
seeing what others missed with greater mental clarity and faster decision-making.
What are they realizing?
What you might be saying
What Becoming gives you
The next game, designed on purpose rather than inherited.
Reason • More
$1.4B
Exit, nine years from founding
Unfulfilled, dissatisfied
Entry state
Renewed focus on a vision worth building
New state
Founder who exited at $1.4B, now on three boards
Member
was feeling
their success didn’t feel like what they thought it would.
What brought them here?
Ninety days later they were
driving at a new definition of success all their own, building their next billion-dollar venture.
What are they realizing?
What you might be saying
What Becoming gives you
Criteria for what is worth pursuing, and why, in one sentence.
Reason • Direction
9,000
People who report up to them
Rudderless, disillusioned
Entry state
Defining life on their terms, rather than what’s expected
New state
President of a $6B division
Member
was feeling
they no longer knew what they were working toward, or why it was worth it.
What brought them here?
Ninety days later they were
finding joy in the everyday, while plotting a daring new move.
What are they realizing?
What you might be saying
What Becoming gives you
A chapter you chose, and the nerve to hold it.
Reason • Freedom
30
Years at one firm, with a book that funds a floor of the building
Free on paper, booked solid
Entry state
Clearing the blockage and setting new systems to support new priorities
New state
Managing partner of a top-tier law firm
Member
was feeling
every option they had would cost them something greater.
What brought them here?
Ninety days later they were
seeing what was momentum dressed as necessity, and choosing to go sailing every Wednesday and adventuring once a quarter.
What are they realizing?
What you might be saying
What Becoming gives you
Room for what you built and for what it was costing you, with fewer tradeoffs.
Reason • Cost
1,800
People under their leadership
Bracing for impact
Entry state
Seeing the tradeoffs they made to get here, that are no longer necessary
New state
CTO of a billion-dollar tech startup
Member
was feeling
they got what they wanted, but the people around them couldn’t handle it.
What brought them here?
Ninety days later they were
finding room for things that would have cost them in the past, and enjoying their relationships in a new light.
What are they realizing?
Everything else you have is well advised. Your life should be too.
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Start becoming
Your advisory begins with the Diagnostic.
A private review of how your system currently operates, by multiple domain experts, delivered by a private advisor.
Or see your ProfileMultiple Experts and a Private Advisor